The short version
| Meaning | Ngoko (casual) | Krama (polite) |
|---|---|---|
| I | aku | kula |
| You | kowé | panjenengan |
| Eat | mangan | nedha |
| Go home | mulih | wangsul |
| Thank you | suwun | matur nuwun |
When to use which
Use Ngoko with close friends, younger people, and in relaxed chats. Use Krama with elders, teachers, customers, and formal settings.
If you are unsure, a warm smile plus pangapunten (excuse me) and simple Krama greetings go a long way.
A mini dialogue
A: Sugeng enjing, Bu.
B: Sugeng enjing. Prikasa kabaripun?
A: Saé, matur nuwun.
That is already enough to open many doors.